25year, I forgot to clarify while I talked about how beautiful my wife is. I did mention a lot of that letter was in direct correlation to what she wrote to my buddies wife and the fact the she told me that she felt that she was ugly to me and I think she was pretty anymore.
Be proactive, not reactive. Who cares what she wrote to your buddy's W, it may mean something but probably means nothing. You talk about how you know your W better than us and better than anyone else, so why are you putting so much stock into junk that she wrote to someone else's wife? And trying to model your behavior to things in that letter is reactive anyway, you're trying to plug holes in the dyke instead of building a stronger dyke. You already know her LL is WoA with secondary being PT. You can't practice PT in your current sitch, and always going on and on about her physical beauty is NOT WoA. So what can you do to fill her emotional tank with WoA?
By the way, the above argumentativeness is exactly what I'm talking about. Why do you always feel it's necessary to defend your position on stuff like this? You get so bogged down in defending yourself that it doesn't seem like you absorb the advice and put it into practice. This is one area where a 180 would greatly benefit you for a number of reasons.
This is answering the question that was asked of me by 25year.
