anyway whilst I was dropping him off I noticed two soccer (football to us in the UK) trophies on the window ledge. Now whilst I was there all of my trophies ended up in the shed (not enough room to display) BUT could have displayed the really important one's!
So I'm assuming these are OM's trophies? Well that was a jerk move on her part for sure. It's amazing how things the WAS found fault with in the LBS are no problem at all when it comes to the OP who can seemingly do no wrong. Anyway, sorry it triggers the dust-up but all you can do is learn from it and move forward!
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The crux of it was for my WW and myself talking about no contact at all which I instigated and so now I will no longer have any contact with her.
That's really what you both need anyway- some time and space. Sometimes something like this has to happen before we finally "get it" and detach.
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Also due to me GALing better she got it into her head that I was seeing someone, I never confirmed or denied this and charged neutral at this point.
Huh, that's strange. Probably gaslighting.
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I will continue to do what I have done and see this episode as a bad day at the office BUT will stay true to the words I said last night and totally detach from her and manage the visitation issues as best I can.
