Like I said I wished the divorce papers came a couple days earlier and then I wouldn't have come at all.
On the one hand I get it. But if that is true....then you cant possibly say you went with no expectations.
To me, the divorce papers are just that...papers.
I mean, if you were actually divorced right this second, would anything in your life be any different?
So to me, the timing isnt great in that it looks like you planned a trip because o the papers. But I dont really see how the direction should change for you.