I will be interested in your thoughts when you have finished that book.

I am glad you see and want to get out of that cheeseless tunnel.

You have mentioned the law of attraction a few times. Are you doing anything on that? The mindset is only the first step.

Best wishes

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together