Does your daughter know about this letter? If so, how does she feel about it? No and actually I did not want to tell her, in case they said no. No more rejection from h's side of the family.
She might feel like you are opening up a can of worms that she will have to deal with later... before you do this, make sure she is on board, please...
can you see why I'd prefer she not know at all? Nothing to deal with. Then if they say yes, she can feel cared for - but if not, nothing.
I have to wonder if h asked them. I doubt it. But if he really "can't pay" then why not ask them?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016