Roist,

Have you been spying on me?

Your list is awesome for a bewildered LBH like me who is constantly second guessing himself.

The two hardest for me:

Detaching and maintaining attachment.

Giving space while building connection.

I used to think these were contradictory things. I now see the wisdom of them.

Peace,

Gordie

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving