I'm not sure if you should respond. Do you believe her? Doesn't matter, however.
If you feel the need, MAYBE reply with something along the lines of....
"w,
Bummer, I wish we could've met face to face to finalize the end of our m. I could have used more closure.
Oh, just fyi, I planned the trip before I got the Div papers.
In any case, I wish you well.
Cali."
Pleasant, to the point, but detached.
Again, I'm so sorry Cali.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016