Ok so here is the big reveal. I called her to let her know I was in town and wanted to see her face to face so we could talk. She quickly said she would call me back and didn't. I got a text instead that simply said she will not be able to see you while you're there. I'm down in Georgia with my family. I didn't respond to her, then about 15 min later she text and said I hope you have a nice visit with my buddy.
I am now playing ping pong with my buddy in his basement and planning on what we will be doing for fun the rest on the time I'm here. Like I said I wished the divorce papers came a couple days earlier and then I wouldn't have come at all. I don't believe I even need to send her a letter now either and my next step is complete detachment from her. I now have the task of getting someone to read the divorce papers to make sure she isn't trying to screw me at all. I won't be able to do that until the end on next month when I return back home from Hawaii.