And I am saying this because I was where you were. I had an infant and I just wanted him to not leave me. I would have let him back in unchanged at first. Hell, I begged him to come back. I screamed, I told him how awful he was for doing this and I tried ot guilt him back in, I tried everything. Hind-sight vision is 20/20. Looking back, if he dumped OW and came back home, but nothing changed, well, I would have suffered longer,
and I would have been exactly where I am now 9 years later. Divorced.
and 9 years older...
just saying T0, please take 5 minutes (once) and go down the rabbit hole of "what if he snaps out of it and returns and SAYS he's all in"???
that's when it hits you that there are so many other things you'd need to feel safe,
so you have to move forward.
Hey, your h could have that internal earthquake and want to do all the work he should have done before.
it could happen. But until if/when it does, please hear us.
You are single as it is, so let's get you a plan for how to handle going forward.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
