Thank you. You both have really forced me to look at my sitch from a diff angle. Both of you really were able to look inside yourself, reflect, and start taking actions towards being a better you. It has been a reminder for me that I need to do more of that. If you have read my sitch, you know that I always svcked at DB and following the rules. I was so devastated and broken, and I spent more mental energy blaming H than looking at my part and changing myself!
He came back nonetheless, but in some ways I wasn't ready. I wasn't mentally strong. So we have been piecing for over 2 years and it has been especially hard. I can't say "I love the new and improved me," and I can't say that I tried hard enough. I know I need to try harder. But I do know that it's not too late. Perhaps the success in my M will be more in me starting that process now? Perhaps I can forgive and accept H if I feel better about me?
Just my thought this morning inspired by both of you fellas. Thank you again :-)
Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela
