Hmmm ... this is tough because once you send it you cannot unsend it. While it seems very effective in getting the message/request across, I also am concerned that their perspective could be that you are finger-pointing. Not saying you should care what they think about you, because the only goal is to get them to pay for her school, correct?
So before sending it, are you prepared for 1. them showing H the letter, and/or 2. them reacting to you in a negative way or it harming your R with them? ... Even though it is perfectly clear to me that H's lack of support is the reason she is in this really hard spot, do you think they will see it that way?
Random thought: what if the approach of the letter was less trying to convince them to pay and more of a desperate plea that they encourage H to do the right thing and pay? Or even simply you are approaching them on advice as to how she can stay at the school? That might take out the blame on H and might they perhaps offer to pay on their own if you are desperately searching all avenues?
Sorry if I missed something else, I am not entirely caught up. Those were my initial thoughts when I read it.
Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela
