Overall though, what do you do with a losing hand in a game that goes on and on?
That's truly a tough one. You need to ask yourself some very hard questions.
I think that the assumption that this will just keep dragging on is correct. I say this though from a point of view that has limited information and knowledge.
You certainly are appearing to be considering the path of the WAS. Is this "right"? Is this "wrong"? I can't judge you on that. No one can.
What I see from the outside is a woman who has given up on her M a long time ago. Even when he shows some signs of emergence you generally sound too beaten down by everything to muster any amount of enthusiasm for it.
In the classic WAW scenario as I understand it, they often have things planned out quite well and just wait for a trigger event like the kids graduating high school to set them loose. This does raise the question - what ARE you waiting for? What is the cost to you, your boys and yes, to your H if you just cut him loose? What are the benefits to each of the actors in this production? It sounds cold perhaps but I do have a tendency to be methodical and logical about things.
I have no idea if this is helpful or not. I hope so in that it may get you thinking about where your path is and what destination you are heading for.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
