and please, God bless your dad - but can he keep talk of OW's to himself? Especially since it's just his surmising.
Good grief, I see no value in that. It's just so painful and raw.
As for what good it does to have your h there, 1) he's the boy's dad so he gets to see them, in someone's home, yours are his
2) your h needs to learn the ways of each baby, and I would be surprised if he'd let the infant cry if you were not around watching.
3) I think there is value in having an adult presence around, at least to me when i had newborns b/c I (hormonally?) always had a semi irrational fear of a fire or burglar or something I would not be able to manage with a toddler and a baby, and no help.
ugh
I hope you will read Maybel's post again
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
