ILYBINILWY - OW - what to do next

[SJW]

Thanks AS. I have always said I don't need him, he threw that back at me when I kicked him out, but I don't need him. At the moment and you know how those moments change I don't even know if I want him.

With regards to my job I can't do anything as officially I'm still employed I am just waiting for either redundancy or a settlement agreement and believe you me if my boss has got any sense it will be a decent settlement agreement with a significant confidentiality clause. I am not saying that to be nasty, I have been treated appallingly for the past few months and redundancy is just a lame way of getting me out of the business but it doesn't give me much in the way of a financial settlement and boy have I earned it for what I have put in.

So as you can see I'm battling in more than one area of my life currently and need the work sitch resolved so I can then focus on what to next in terms of the house, another job, etc.

I'm not relying on H at all but he has to contribute to keep the kids home he is paying 50/50 which he is required to do legally. He has no expenses outside of this as his accommodation is free at work so all his money is for OW and Lala land.

I've also told my FA who is a very old friend to start moving my assets so if it comes to it H can't touch them. I already had a lot of financial stability when I met my H, he had nothing so I need to protect myself. See in my lucid moments I am thinking practically I just seem to post the emotional stuff on here.

This weekend me and the kids are going to have a great weekend. Although I know they'll be times when I cry when they're in bed and times when I drive myself nuts wondering where he has taken her and what they are doing, I will not allow these to be the defining moments of my weekend.

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