Right now it's not really hurting. I'm more frustrated and angry but also kind of relieved. Nothing is going to change while living together. I guess I'm just sick of this. I know the hurt will come though.
I think you are right, once a WAW gets to this point there's really not much point in staying together because they really can't go on their journey of discovery until separation. So this may actually be a good thing, a step forward. It'll help you detach as well. I know it hurts and I'm sorry you're having to go through those emotions. And it'll be really difficult at first, but I promise it does get better. Separation has a way of allowing you to take your focus off your sitch and put it on yourself.
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Honestly, I've lost a lot of hope that she will come back lately.
No reason at all to give up hope. A lot of WAWs discover that once they move out, their fantasy really was a fantasy after all. Their dreams of a new and improved life usually don't come true. Then they have to look inside to see where the hurt and pain is really coming from, and that's the journey they should have been on in the first place.
