I have decided to write down what further changes I can do for myself that could have a positive impact to myself and my marriage.
I know I achieved the following. I use basically notes on my phone to keep expectations on target. A "To Do" list had helped me go through depression in the past.
- Do more chores in the house - Keep track of what I need to do with date/time - Spend quality time with my kids - Listen and act on what my W asks - Put W and kids above all issues - Put a brake on career ambitions - Avoid spending personal time for business - Merge the need for family matter even if there is business forces
The first new one:
- Spend less time on phone esp. when idle. Engage on more fun activities.
Me: 43, W: 43 M: 16, T: 18 D - 7, D - 7 ILUB: 26 August 2014 Still living together