If there is one thing I learned is that we can not be responsible for the relationship the kids have with the was. I actually am quite annoyed with this last go round for them because they also saw how we were interacting and they stated mom likes you and would try to get us to kiss and be close.
I will need to protect them more if there is another bought of her poking her head in on is again. Basically making her work more.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15