Assume they are going to believe Hs lies, but even if they don't, they're still going to pick H over you if they have to choose.. I'm still very close to my inlaws, they are my biggest supporters, but I've backed away because I don't want to make things weirder...

But this isn't about you, your H or your inlaws, this is about your D.. And they can't help if they don't know. It's pretty common for well of g-parents to help with college.

Btw, if I'm not getting to nosey, why can't she take out a loan? When you start getting support you could help her pay it off.


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized