A lot to digest. I think I'm going to take a few days and figure out my course of action. I'm thinking of taking the boys away for the weekend.
H continues to lie every day. Yes I know I need to detach but that is my reason for wanting the schedule. He texts me saying he has to do XYZ and won't be at the house til late. But that's not what he's doing at all ...
But because he's not saying he wants to work on the R it's not my business to call him out, right?
The last we talked - he needed space to figure out why he feels this way and to see if things will work out between us. Again, I know he's lying when he says that because it's the exact line he gave me last time.
Anyway I guess that's my thought IRT the schedule. He thinks he's dad of the year coming to sleep on the couch at 9pm getting here eating dinner working out and watching tv on the couch all night - not exactly helpful with the kids. He will take the baby if I bring him to him by doesn't offer anything. Hell he doesn't even come in and kiss the baby when he gets here half the time.
So that was the scheduling question. He goes out and lies about where he is and what he's doing on his own accord (I'm not asking what he's doing) and then still comes here at night like he's Mr helpful
