Coconut I am not snooping the joint bank account is my bank account I don't have another and he didn't until I set him one up last week. I was checking as I do every day and always have to make sure there is money in the bank for me and the kids. He's used that account card to fill his car up with fuel to take her out for the day which is not acceptable.
I am resigned to the fact that he doesn't want me or the life as a M man with me and his children he has completely disregarded them so he can 'get used to it'. It's easy for him to do that as they are so used to him being away they don't even ask. I am hurting I am disappointed, devastated for me and the kids, sad, angry, humiliated and he doesn't give a [censored] because 'she' makes him happy.
Sorry I've just got my eldest to bed and they are clueless and saying goodnight to my little man who looks so like his Daddy and absolutely adores him is breaking my heart.
Me 46 H 39 M 11 T 14 S 10 DO 8 ILYBNILWY 11.06.17 Separate rooms 11.06.17 ILW OW A ongoing 12.06.17 Kicked H out 23.6.17 H came home 20.8.17
