Originally Posted By: T0324
To be honest I have no clue.

I've been living in limbo since March and felt like I was just waiting for him to leave and now he has.

I don't even know where to begin. I guess taking a break from here. Not snooping on H and focusing on school and the boys.


No! Focus on YOU! Not from the selfish context.... yes we all have responsibilities (school, kids, etc). But if you can not coordinate H to take care of the kids, take the plunge on a sitter or daycare.

But also YES, remove the focus from H and don't snoop.




Darn... there used to be an edit post button if done within a couple of minutes... but apparently thats gone now too.

Anyway, another thing:

In the context of sitter/daycare/H watching the kids... start with something simple for YOU:

Re-read DB and if time DR... its like your taking a step back for clarity.


Last edited by Cadet; 07/10/17 12:36 AM. Reason: Combine posts

Me: 43
M: 10y
S:15
ILYBINILWY 2/18/13
W moved out 2/18/13
Filed for D: 2/17/13
Got DB: 2/20/13
Got DR: 2/23/13
180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13
D Final Dec '13