I've been living in limbo since March and felt like I was just waiting for him to leave and now he has.
I don't even know where to begin. I guess taking a break from here. Not snooping on H and focusing on school and the boys.
No! Focus on YOU! Not from the selfish context.... yes we all have responsibilities (school, kids, etc). But if you can not coordinate H to take care of the kids, take the plunge on a sitter or daycare.
But also YES, remove the focus from H and don't snoop.
Darn... there used to be an edit post button if done within a couple of minutes... but apparently thats gone now too.
Anyway, another thing:
In the context of sitter/daycare/H watching the kids... start with something simple for YOU:
Re-read DB and if time DR... its like your taking a step back for clarity.
Last edited by Cadet; 07/10/1712:36 AM. Reason: Combine posts
Me: 43 M: 10y S:15 ILYBINILWY 2/18/13 W moved out 2/18/13 Filed for D: 2/17/13 Got DB: 2/20/13 Got DR: 2/23/13 180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13 D Final Dec '13