Tread: I'm not totally familiar with your sitch (sorry). From what I know you've already confronted her once about the A/OM. Doing it again will make you sound like a broken record.

Don't do anything drastic and keep your mouth shut.

I've noticed that when W has baited me into old fights or I bring them up - she get's this look of self righteousness on her face or a "here we go again".

Listen to everyone here - make small consistent changes - you will feel great.

I took on everything - home renovations, cooking, baking, physical fitness, I bought a motorcycle. Bad news, 18 months in - still no closer to reconciling. Good News - I'm ready for D if that's what's in the cards.


Last edited by Cadet; 06/28/17 03:30 AM. Reason: Start a new thread message
M:50
W:53
MR:20
D:21
S:17
S:11
BD-Sept 2015
Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015
Actually EA
In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016
W moved out:May 22 2016
OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017