When you're really done you will know it. You obviously aren't done so you need to regroup take a step back and breathe. Take some time out to focus back on you not on her and what she's done/doing. When the time comes you will know.
Me 46 H 39 M 11 T 14 S 10 DO 8 ILYBNILWY 11.06.17 Separate rooms 11.06.17 ILW OW A ongoing 12.06.17 Kicked H out 23.6.17 H came home 20.8.17