Wife wants to leave marriage 2

[JRuss]

You've established the infidelity for legal purposes, should it be necessary to show it in court. And it might be necessary, as even in some no-fault jurisdictions, adultery is grounds to deny alimony.

So now quit snooping, quit obsessing and follow TxHubby's advice. It may nor may not save your marriage, but it will save you, and it will set you up to start living a great life that you love.