I had to start a new thread since that one was already too long. Just so everyone knows from the start of this thread. I have made the decision to go see my wife in person. I am going to dress nice and just ask her out to lunch and to get out of the house for a little bit. If she completely shuts me down and can't stand the sight of me then I will have my answer, which will push things along. Then I can make a much more clear decision about what I want to do next.
Sounds like a good plan. We all have our limits when it comes to being passive and living in limbo. At some point you have to fish or cut bait. When you truly don't care which way it goes, and know you'll be fine, is when it's that time.
