Thank you all for the input. It is much appreciated. More than likely this was temp checking. It almost feels like she was looking to make her way back but something popped up that she might like better and she wants to go see what it is all about.
She definitely has a way to go.

For now I will just keep living and note what happens. Even yesterday she was on the phone with the kids in the truck on Bluetooth and started asking my advice on some new work venture she is trying to start. I gabe very brief answers. I could tell she was looking for more. I enjoy helping and it felt wrong not to give more information.
I must admit I do feel used. Even D9 said something after about it.

If she asks more I will give her info then move along.

Anyway let's see what the day brings. Always hard as the kids leave today.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15