I have a question for the group. Saved up the phone records like I do every month for legal purposes. And I noticed that my W contacted OM 4 times. On May 17th W got a approved for a company trip to D.C. for May 22nd. That evening she sent OM one text(probably letting him know that she will be in the area). OM just happens to live in VA, which would be a few hours away. W found out on the May 21st, which hotel she would be staying in. Also one text goes out to OM that day(probably informing him of her exact location). W then sends a text out to OM on May 22nd right before heading to the airport. Then W makes a 2 minute call to OM after checking into hotel. Other than telling me that she has arrived. S13 and myself didn't hear from her until about 6:40am in the morning of May 23rd.
All clues point to W using this company trip to meet up with OM. Now I'm trying to figure out, if I should let this go or confront W. The main thing I want to know is why? Every excuse W used for having the A is no longer relevant at this point. But yet after not seeing this guy for months. The first chance W gets, it appears that she plotted and risked everything. Including her job, if they were to find out about this. To sleep with OM again.
Dude, how is this detaching??? It isn't. She's got you wrapped around her finger and is loving every second of it. Stop doing this today. Stop lamenting your situation and start working on your new life. Instead of you obsessed with her comings and goings, she should be interested in yours. She isn't because you don't have much going on for her to be attracted to. Change that dynamic starting today. Seriously. It will help.
