Kaizen can I ask then how you change that? I have children like OTW and although only just starting on this path I will be in a similar position. I will (at some point) want us to spend time together as a family for the kids sake as I know H does now but he refuses to give up OW so would never want to spend time with me. I'm not trying to focus on him spending time with me but how do you not give your kids that time without it seeming like your giving WAS their cake and letting them eat it?
Me 46 H 39 M 11 T 14 S 10 DO 8 ILYBNILWY 11.06.17 Separate rooms 11.06.17 ILW OW A ongoing 12.06.17 Kicked H out 23.6.17 H came home 20.8.17
