Yeah I'm with Cristy, she's temp-checking you. Do you know the squirrel analogy? If you want to feed a squirrel you hold the food out and hold perfectly still and wait for the squirrel to come take it. If the squirrel approaches and you make any movement towards it at all it will run up a tree and the whole process starts over again. You really don't want to go into pursuit mode right now. It sounds like you've been doing great and being independent, and that's getting her attention. So keep that up! That said, these are exactly the kind of baby steps Michele says to look for. It's a very good sign your W is starting to think about you in a positive light again. But she still has further to go on her journey.
