People treat you how you let them treat you.

I read something yesterday:

"The moment you take responsibility for everything in your life is the moment you can change anything in your life"

It's time to change.

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together