Hi TX thanks for stopping by. I agree with a lot of what you are saying and you are right I was a doormat, I thought I was doing the right thing but I should have kicked him out when he told me he would not stop A.

The only bit I'm struggling with is what to tell the kids. For me to totally do what you're suggesting they will have to know and the thought of that is killing me. I guess that's why I tried to carry on with him in the house as well as obviously hoping I could persuade him to change his mind.

I have tried to find your story but can't as I would like to read it. How can I find it?


Me 46 H 39
M 11 T 14
S 10 DO 8
ILYBNILWY 11.06.17
Separate rooms 11.06.17
ILW OW A ongoing 12.06.17
Kicked H out 23.6.17
H came home 20.8.17



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