Pinn
I as well check in and look around. I knew I would hear from you but you explained exactly the same thing in your situation as in mine. It is very tough with kids though. When she goes cold she will be too wrapped up in her going out life to call them and say good night. Their relationship is so strained.

I really believe at this point with the coldness I feel and my instincts tell me to stay away for now. If she breaks through again at some point then maybe I will take charge and see what happens. But right now she seems wrapped up in something and there is no time for me or kids which is sad.

I forgot to mention that during our time apart of course I struggled but i definitely haven't just been laying around waiting. I have been living life. Being single is not what I want right now in my life but I really haven't come across any relationship worthy females at this point.
So the gal stays in movement for me. It does get hard missing my kids half of the time then it is also hard trying to work on my days with them!

Pinn we always had similar situations and I guess I will see what happens. Her actions have been telling the story right now of what she is wanting so that is that.


M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15