I had to start a new thread since that one was already too long. Just so everyone knows from the start of this thread. I have made the decision to go see my wife in person. I am going to dress nice and just ask her out to lunch and to get out of the house for a little bit. If she completely shuts me down and can't stand the sight of me then I will have my answer, which will push things along. Then I can make a much more clear decision about what I want to do next.
