Honey you're a fine DBer. Is there a contest to see who is the best? or a rank order? We all got dealt a very $h!tty hand and are all trying to make the best of it. Some situations that come up are handled in a more ... traditional DB way than others, but we are all making efforts, learning and supporting each other.
Don't be quick to cut off - you may end up regretting it if you do. I'm saying this as much for myself as for you as I've had a situation in my life arise lately where my first inclination is to cut off and I'm struggling on some days to stop myself for doing that, as I've done so before with damaging results all around. Don't want to do that again! Don't want that for you either!
How's class going? xoxoxo
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
