If I've been shaken out of anything since coming to this forum, it is that this is the ONLY WAY to return to the person you love that is trying to get away from you. THEY ARE TRYING TO LEAVE YOU.
Let them go. It's the only thing you will look back on and be proud of-no matter how your marriage turns out.
M-60 H-51 M-14 years BD 12/26/16 S 1/1/17
"First the pain, then the rising." Glennon Doyle Melton