So I exchanged some emails today with the W trying to get her to meet up with me to talk about some boundaries, I'll post our exchanges and let me know if I screwed up Me: Good Morning, So since you've got almost all your things out of the house I feel like we need to talk soon to discuss a few things. I'm thinking one day after work this week we can meet up for a few mins and discuss things.
W: Good morning, im not trying to be mean.... but it really depends on what you want to talk about. its been hard enough as it is and i dont want to keep having repeat conversations. i hope you have a good day too
Me: It's really just things about the house for the most part
W: Ok Im sure we can either meet up or talk on the phone one evening this week
Me:ok id really prefer in person this time, just let me know what day works best.
W:alright Ill try
Me:I know this is all very hard for you too, and i really do appreciate you willing to meet me in person this time to talk.
W:ive had a lot going on in the evenings after work lately so im not positive but will try to. I am also worried about the conversation turning into one we have had many times and mentally i just cant do that anymore.
Me:I understand you feeling that way, im not going to pressure you into reconciliation talk. You already know what I want and how I feel. If and when that talk comes it'll be your choice.
W: So why does it have to be in person?
Me: I know you dont trust my words or actions right now, I understand why cause of how some of our other talks went. I just feel like this one needs to be in person is all. I am not going to turn it into a reconciliation talk.
And she didnt respond after that, but she did come by the house when I was working to finish getting the last little bit out of the house.
She just REALLY does not want to meet me in person still
