I wish I had some helpful advice for you but I don't so will just offer my support.
Interesting that there are so many mister nice guy types that are either WH or LBHs. Is that just a categorization of weak men?
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving