Thank you for the reply. I get it. There have been times recently that I could have said so much of the same. I keep telling myself "head over heart." "Make good and logical choices. Don't lead by emotions. Look at your life and M on the grander scale." What you say makes complete sense to me.
It is interesting that you say "I don't feel like we can have an authentic rebuilt marriage unless we're both all-in and 100% vulnerable." I have thought the exact same way all along. I just can't get there with him. I wonder if my feeling that way is what holds me back tho, or maybe I am just not there yet?
I don't want to hijack your thread, so I will update mine. Basically my H has done/said all that one could hope for to enter piecing and he has been pretty consistent. Something has just been lost on me...
Thank you again. ... I am happy for you :-)
Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela
