Too many of us try to fake our way through 180, GAL, detachment, etc. I did. It doesn't work.
The only other thing I will add is that you can think of detachment like peeling an onion, it has layers, so I agree you need to come to a place of real detachment, however it takes time and is done in layers and stages.
Agree. Nobody is prepared to 'be detached' out of the gate at BD.
I think it takes faking it for a bit to gain footing before you can proceed to the next 'layer'.
