I will make sure that is the way it was taken when I get chance.
No Don't!!! Go Dark, don't you dare ask him to make sure you didn't hurt his feelings... it's hard, but you need to start living like he is completely gone. You want to think of him like you do about the boyfriend you had before you met him..
It's hard, and I didn't get it until I moved out of state, but out of sight out of mind really is what you are striving for.
I just wanted to clarify, do NOT ask him if you hurt his feelings with the comment about the kids asking about him. Just leave it. And I also completely agree with what TxHubby wrote.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized
