Thanks again AS your words are very wise and as I said earlier welcoming him back with open arms would not be the case it would be very very slow and cautious a recon would be a long time off.
Me 46 H 39 M 11 T 14 S 10 DO 8 ILYBNILWY 11.06.17 Separate rooms 11.06.17 ILW OW A ongoing 12.06.17 Kicked H out 23.6.17 H came home 20.8.17