OC_Hope, I'm sorry you find yourself here. I agree, I think you should carry on with your plans and leave her to figure out what she wants to do. If she wants to come back she will. You also gave to u dressed that the OP is like a drug to her so you have to give her time to withdraw from him.
Why don't you start your own thread so more vets can visit you and give you there wealth of experience.
Me - 47 H - 45 D-16 M - 6 years Separated - May 16
Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')