New member, please help.

[woundedfool]

Things between us haven't changed

Well, what are YOU doing different?

with her "friend in tow telling her that it's hard at first but how great she will feel when it's done and she will be free.

I take it you didn't read DR? CH 1 The divorce trap really spells out this illusion.

I'm just hoping that a trained counselor can persuade her to think again.

Counseling has nothing to do with persuasion. Its more about communication. What do YOU want to get out of counseling?

Having said that I discounted divorce busting counseling because of the cost and being over the phone but would that help after all. How could I get her to talk to someone over the phone ? I'm confused.

Coaching is about you, not her. It helps you to refine DB'ing technique. As well as plans and goal setting.