Originally Posted By: dale165
Funny thing is that I think dating may actually help. W is very jealous and when she sees I went somewhere she always wants to know who was there and further questions if women was there (I never gave her a reason to be this way btw).

But I battle back and forth because of my personal beliefs. Also would not want to hurt a third party.

Very interesting. You don't have to date, Dale. Just be mysterious. Don't tell your wife everything you are doing. If she thinks you might be dating, that's good. Let her wonder. I'd even go so far as to make it look like you are dating, without lying and saying you are. Just make it look like you are. When asked whether you are, just say that you refuse to answer that. Does your wife tell you everything she is doing? Probably not. But even if she supposedly does, that doesn't mean you have to tell your unfaithful, walk-away wife everything you are doing. Just a suggestion. You do what you think is right. MWD says to do these sorts of things, for the Last Resort Technique. I'm just making these suggestions, because you seem to be on the fence about wanting her back. If you don't want her back, then just ignore what I'm saying in regards to getting her back.


M: 33, W: 30 @BD
M 7, T 10
BD: Early Dec
W left: Late Dec
W got stuff: Late Jan
W sent S papers: Mid Feb
OM cnfrmd: Late Feb

Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.