Just been reading through Sandi's rules again and the difficult thing for me is because my H has spent so much time away from home in the army, tours etc. I have a life and he would drop into that same life when he was home so how do appear to be getting a life when I already have one and apparently one that he's bored with? I can't change much about it as it revolves around a close group of friends and involves our respective kids. The kids play together at one or the others houses and the adults chat together whilst they play, everyones happy.
The other thing is if I'm not seeing or speaking to him how can he see that I'm acting as if and upbeat?
Me 46 H 39 M 11 T 14 S 10 DO 8 ILYBNILWY 11.06.17 Separate rooms 11.06.17 ILW OW A ongoing 12.06.17 Kicked H out 23.6.17 H came home 20.8.17
