Thanks AS kicking him out was tough but he pushed me so much last week talking about still going on holiday as a family and all that and then after such a lovely evening where he was telling friends what a fantastic day our wedding was I just lost it.
I agree about the finances completely and that will be my mission tomorrow. Not had a good day today so just getting through it will be enough. His phone bill has just gone out the bank today and it's three times what it normally is! I know he's on full MLC mission and with me losing my job I can't afford for him to be dragging us down with him. I have a friend who is a D and family lawyer so will also speak to her tomorrow. D is not the route I want to go down but I may not have a choice and my first priority has to be protecting mine and the kids futures.
In all honesty I was hoping that kicking him out and him having to live in his single room in the barracks would be the wake up he needed he's only done one night and was making a lot of contact yesterday but I haven't heard from him today at all.
If and I'm pretty sure it won't but if he said he wanted to try it would be a very long road with both of us acknowledging the flaws in ourselves and our M and building up from there I could not just drop back into how it was. Be nice to have that option but I don't right now and perhaps never will.
Me 46 H 39 M 11 T 14 S 10 DO 8 ILYBNILWY 11.06.17 Separate rooms 11.06.17 ILW OW A ongoing 12.06.17 Kicked H out 23.6.17 H came home 20.8.17