1. I don't think you can likely keep him from moving him home, but you don't have to OK it. 2. Even if he ends with OW, best to wait awhile to agree to try to work it out. For now stick with I don't know what I want right now, need time to decide. Validate, be kind but not willing to let him just come back, best if he feels he might lose you because of HIS actions. If he really wants it, he will need to fight to get you back. 3. Don't punish him when it comes to the kids, let him be the BEST dad ever, give him an opportunity to see the importance of his family, if your not comfortable tell him that, don't just say "you can't come in", tell him why you would prefer he doesn't. Better he knows he hurt you and you don't want to see him, than for you to be 8!t(hy wife who tells him he can't step foot in house.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized
