One more thing WSH, the stuff you said also helped me realize that I'm blaming my wife for a lot of struggles I've had since discovery. Work suffered, depressed, more responsibility, anger etc. When a problem arised, I just said my W's affair is the reason for my poor performance and problems. In actuality, I'm responsible for myself. The affair is the first thing I say and that's all I say but I know I cant use that excuse forever.
M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year T 7 Years
