Here again part 8

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I don't have a lot of time.
Go read the thread of Psysara, she was pregnant with her third baby when her husband was involved with OW. You might want to ask her a few questions, she is great!

I remember my husband using "testosterone"... It was a disaster on his mood.

You are not the cause of his behavior, it just happens that he needs to find someone guilty of his unhappiness, and he made you the scapegoat of it. That happiness is something that they have in themselves that are nothing to do with us but rather with their upbringing, but instead of working of themselves it's easier to blame someone. That's why by snapping at you to start fights/arguments, it gives him excuses/justifications that you are the one making his life miserable, it's very twisted but they don't think in a rational way.

Bye