I don't think you know my sitch, but I didn't DB well, I wasn't able to detach and I got angry. I insulted my WW, I slashed her tires and kicked in 3 doors, so I don't expect I'll ever be reuniting. But what I do want is to be able to be civil, so this is kinda starting to open up a communication channel with her on a personal level.
As for the text, she responded after an hour with- "thank you. No, I'm not at all but I'm just trying to figure it all out".
Then she started texting about an issue with my son.
So didn't make much headway there, although she did respond, she didn't reply with the customary, how about you, so no idle conversation. I'm not sure what she's trying to figure out, or if she's just trying to express misery because she thinks that's what I was hoping to hear... Who knows, a year later and my mind reading skills still aren't up to par.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized